TANTRA HEALING SESSIONS
For Men, Women, Couples and Groups.
Have you ever wondered to yourself: "Is this all there is to life?"
Have you ever felt the need to go deeper and find out what y(our) purpose as "spiritual beings having a human experience" is here on planet earth? Well you're probably not the first, and most likely wont be the last to ask these very quintessential questions. Life is the most exciting, interesting and mysterious journey we will ever take and there is so much more to it than meets the eye.
Allow me to be your guide on this journey of self discovery and self awareness with a Tantra Healing Session. Here we will combine various techniques of touch, bodywork, breath-work and energy-work, along with guided meditation, chakra balancing, kundalini activation and so much more, to jumpstart your spiritual awakening.
We will utilize 'Timeline Work', a type of trauma release technique to tap into whatever is coming up for you concerning your childhood upbringing, conditioned belief systems, and any trauma based issues associated with guilt, shame, and sexual dysfunction. Whether it be mental, emotional, spiritual and/or psychological abuse... as well as verbal, physical, and/or sexual abuse (including incest, molestation, rape and sexual harassment or misconduct).
I work with both survivors and perpetrators to help heal the wounds that keep us stuck in old unhealthy patterns and programs that no longer serve us for our highest good, and that keep us from having a positive, healthy attitude toward sex and sexuality.
As one of my teachers (Cathleen Cienfuegos) explains, "Tantra Healing Sessions" are a return to wholeness. It is a reintegration of all our lost and damaged parts... parts of us that have gone numb, or are out of balance; parts of us that rest in the shadows, unclaimed or rejected or forgotten. It is a deep return to the wisdom of the body and our energetic blueprint for health and vitality.
Sexual healing is about being deeply connected to our personal power, and our own creative wellspring so that we may move about in the world with grace, ease and authority. It requires unlearning all the conditioning and stories about who you are that have been given to you from society, culture, and family. It is to realize and actualize your own unique genius and learn to express that fully.
All the stories, trauma, unprocessed feelings and pain that we've experienced in life are stored and reflected in our bodies. We can clear this energetic and emotional stagnation and super-charge ourselves with sexual, creative life-force energy. Even if you are great with dealing with things as they come up, have had no early trauma, and have not had any shame or rigidity posed on you by family, you are probably still carrying the collective understanding of what sexuality is in our world.
Our culture shapes us, and gives us our values. Studies show that there is a direct correlation between sexual repression and violence. Countries that have extreme and judgmental views about how sexuality should be expressed, and practice suppression are countries that are always engaged in war!
Beginning a journey to sexual wholeness is its own type of revolution... a re-evolution for self-expression, creativity, fulfillment, personal power, and quite literally "Peace on Earth"...
TANTRIC COACHING RETREATS
Tantric Coaching Retreats are specifically designed for you to fully immerse yourself into the Tantra experience with your Tantra Coach. This is for anyone who is ready to go deeper and do their “inner work”, “shadow work”, and come to a place of “self realization” and liberation, not only within the bounds of sexuality but within life in general. I will have a variety of activities to choose from as leaning tools for intimacy and connection, including healing old traumas, working with conditioned belief systems, emotional release work, breathwork, energywork, guided visualization, meditation, compassionate communication, and much much more, to activate your spiritual awakening and get you started on your own personal and spiritual relationship with Divine Source. Whether you are spending 1, 2 or 3 days with me, it is my deepest intention and hope that you will walk away with a plethora of wisdom, knowledge and information that will begin to transform your life in ways you never could have imagined.
Day One of your retreat starts in the afternoon and will include an intimate conversation about your thoughts, feelings, needs, expectations, intentions, fears, and desires. It is my truest intention to hold the space for you to drop into your heart and share yourself deeply, openly, honestly, transparently, and vulnerably. It's not every day that we can find someone to share that depth of connection with, so please take this as an opportunity to be real, authentic and genuine with whatever it is that you'd like to work on. This is a rare chance to do the healing work and the inner work on yourself that we all came here to do in order to make ourselves and the world a better place in which to live.
We will then continue with a healing touch session, where you will learn how to relax, let go, and surrender to receiving without any need to give anything in return. As I have often said, “its just as important to learn how to receive, as it is to learn how to give." It's also important to learn from receiving by just closing your eyes, taking deep, slow, intentional breaths, and being present with the touch and how it feels. Paying attention to where my hands are going on your body, how much pressure I'm using, what part of my hands, arms, or body is touching yours. You can learn so much about how to give just from receiving.
During the session, we will start off with some breath and energywork to still our minds and drop into our bodies. We, as humans, spend so much time in our heads on a daily basis that most of us don't even know whats it's like to just be in our bodies and feel the sensations of pleasure, joy, happiness, wisdom, relaxation, connection, intimacy, gratification, and contentment that comes from receiving loving, nurturing, healthy, sensual, erotic, and healing touch from someone who is being fully present with us.
I will include a guided meditation of channeled information from Divine Source that is meant for just you to hear. Allow me to be the channel for this information to come through as I move my hands across your skin and along your body, relaxing your muscles, and calming your mind and spirit. We will begin to move old, stuck, stagnant energy that is keeping you from allowing fresh new life force energy to flow through the energy channels (meridians) in your body.
I will then move into activating your Chakras (see my blog on “The Wisdom of the Chakras” for more info). I will start with the 1st chakra, your root chakra at the base of your perineum, and proceed all the way up to the top of your head, where the 7th chakra, or your crown chakra is located I will also begin to work with your Kundalini Energy, which in ancient text is described as being the “spark of life” that took root when your spirit entered your body as an infant.
You will be learning how to activate your “sexual energy”, also know as “life force energy” moving it throughout your entire being, filling up every cell in your body with vibrant and vital life force energy to renew, refresh, and revitalize you in every way imaginable. Throught this practice, you will begin to build this energy up and bring it back down several times before releasing it to create a sense of calm, wellbeing, relaxation, and connection to yourself, each other and especially "Divine Source".
It is our divine birthright to be connected to our sexuality in a spiritual way. We will work with whatever conditioning you received around sex and sexuality in your lifetime, especially anything that keeps you from living a happy, healthy, vibrant, and fulfilling life.
After the session is over, we will move into a quiet, meditative space, connecting with ourselves and bringing the energy back home to our hearts and minds. Giving thanks for showing up and being fully present with the process. We will take some time to clean up and prepare ourselves for a delicious meal. It can be your choice to have a homemade organic meal prepared by "yours truly” (I can work around any dietary restrictions and/or preferences that you may have) or we can go out to one of the many amazing farm-to-table restaurants in the Asheville area.
If you are interested in the 1, 2 or 3 day retreat, please let me know and I will be happy to send you the rest of the guidelines via email.
A Goddess/Body-Temple Worship session is a combination of both giving and receiving in a Tantric Ritual of worshiping and honoring the “Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine”. Where not only will you be learning how to worship the Goddess but where YOU will also be learning how to “be worshiped by HER”. This a lesson in the return to a more egalitarian way of living. Where we are seen as equals in the paradigm of creating, procreating, and co-creating life as it is on this planet.
In ancient times, the feminine face of god, otherwise know as “Sophia” or just “Goddess” was honored, respected, revered and worshiped just as the masculine face of god, otherwise know as “Yahweh” or just “God” is honored and worshiped in modern times.
She was seen as the giver of life being that she was the one who bore the burden of carrying a life in her womb for nine months in order to co-create life here on this planet. There was a time when conception, gestation, and birth was seen as something so sacred that the powers that be sought to create laws that prohibited the futility of it. Thus creating a sacrament called marriage and the idea that a woman became a mans property, along with the child growing inside of her body.
When this happened, it deemed the male superior and the female inferior and did a grave disservice to our egalitarian way of life, where both the male and the female are created equal in the eyes of nature and the laws of the universe. You can lean more about egalitarianism at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egalitarianism
We have become “imbalanced” as a result of our ignorance and our arrogance, ignoring the laws of nature and lording it over to amass power, wealth, fame, superiority, dominance, and status. We have become out of tune with the cycles of nature and our connection to the mother earth with her constant unconditional love for us, always giving to help sustain life, never asking for anything in return other than to give thanks for her gifts and not take advantage of her resources for nefarious reasons.
When we are out of balance with each other and with nature, things go awry as you have very well seen and maybe even experienced first hand as the effects of climate change happening all over the planet as we speak. Unimaginable and catastrophic destruction, that have killed, maimed and displaced hundreds of thousands of humans, and yet, those of us who are not effected, turn a blind eye to this travesty.
What will it take for us to wake up and realize that we are living in old paradigm conditioned belief systems that are no longer working for the good of humanity, but only for the good of a few greedy, selfish, mentally/emotionally and psychologically imbalanced individuals who think they are gods, when in reality they are only human, just like the rest of us.
When we are out of sync with the qualities of the DIVINE FEMININE, goddess energies that bring about a sense of Love, Kindness, Compassion, Tenderness, and Receptivity, then we are out of sync with ourselves, with others and with Divine Source. The pendulum has swung too far to the other side and distorted what it means to be masculine in our world.
We have taken the "masculine qualities" of strong, assertive, protective, courageous, and determined and forced them into overbearing, aggressive, destructive, selfish, and domineering. It's time for men to listen to women or there wont be anything left to fight for anymore. There is another way to go about living on this planet with one another, in peace, harmony and balance. We just have to be willing to change our minds, open our hearts and trust Divine Source to guide us in the right direction.
In a Goddess worship session you will be guided to surrender to your own feminine side, learning how to be receptive, sensitive, compassionate, and vulnerable when you are receiving the gift of touch, pleasure, sensuality, and healing energy that your goddess is giving you. You will learn how to let go of your own personal agendas, expectations, and preconceived ideas, of what you think this is (or even should be) about and be open to what it is that SHE has to teach you about the secrets of the Ancient and Sacred Feminine Mysteries Schools.
You will learn how to worship the body as a temple, where our soul resides and our spirit soars. You will learn about the sacredness of our bodies and all the wonders it has to offer. You will also learn how to give as well as receive, honoring the Divine Feminine form. All her sensual curves and delicate angles. From the tip of her toes, to the top of her head and everything in between. You will learn how to communicate your thoughts, feelings, needs and requests. You will learn about boundaries, communication, and consent. And hopefully you will learn more about yourself in the process of learning about HER.
We are all Divinely connected. We don't survive without each other. It is important to remember that we all possess both the masculine and feminine energies and qualities within us. It's time to UNLEARN everything that we have been programed to be in the past, and open up to the possibility of everything that we can be in the present. We do this not only for ourselves but especially for our future generations.
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